Monday, 3 September 2012

Life is something which people define in their own  perspective..For some its an adventure,for some its meant to live happily,for some its ambitious.people lead their life with an aim or figure out one to see themselves at the pinnacle of success some day..But the only thing i want to know in my life is to know myself completely and follow my heart and do what it says.I wonder when people often ask me the question "Tell me about yourself" ..To me its the most puzzling question..a conundrum ..i could never figure out an answer for that and tragically that's the question i am most often encountered with..I don't know what i want nor the reason for why i am doing few things in my life..Figuring out yourself from what people think about you.(is a way i thought)..But infact you end up losing yourself if you listen to what others say.The best judge of your life is 'YOU'.The only witness of every instant in your life is 'YOU' Then why  not know yourself more and may be some day you could figure out what you want to in your life..I am an ENGINEER now...and i don't know why i am one..I never contemplated over it. I just let it happen as a conventional practice.Never trying to know 'WHY'.The second most often asked question is "What is your aim in life" This question absolutely turns me off..Drives me crazy...i just feel like shouting at the pitch of my voice and say I DONT KNOW..But sadly i end up giving a crazy answer everytime..I go to an interview of IT firm my aim is to be a software engineer.I go to an interview for an Electrical Company my aim is to excel in my core field...Do an MBA..I would want to be a successful entrepreneur.If  my aims are so capricious.. depending on the Situation they change..do i really have an aim..???No I Dont....Knowing your intrests could help you dream for doing something in that field..But U need to be rigid and bold enough to pursue them..Want to have one such dream and Achieve it some day unlike doing things because elders say me or what the so called successful people suggest.A doctor would want his kid to be  a doctor because he is successful in that field..an engineer the same...Why ME because YOU were..Just Try knowing yourself more and sure you can muster up courage to follow your dreams....

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  2. its absolutely true as these r facts to d core :)
    I too felt d same during d placement season ... surroundings had forced me to change colours acc to d company to survive my needs..
    i could not follow my heart instead succumbed to my mind :(
    reading this article raises hope inside me to try atleast for any single thing in my life where my heart shall rule :) hopefully that leads me to discover the YOU in ME. :)

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  3. Hey thanx...:)nd wish u good luck...:)

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  4. hey renu.... nice article... and soooo true!!! same case with me too... i don't want to camouflage myself in order to survive in the world outside... so im actually on d 'road not taken' to chase my cherished dream!!! :)

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  5. wish u all good luck dear...Thats a really appreciating fact that u chose wat you want in ur life.

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  6. i think so , what u mentioned above is happend to every student... every human will have desires(dreams),if their desires will become more essential to him/her , then they starts fixing an aim.. i dont no whether they succeed or not ,but after his/her aim got succeed then they will select other desire as their aim and works for it,so human desires are unlimited,we cant limit our desires or dreams coz we cant control our mind, desires may occur from their surroundings ,backgrounds or from the society also, dats y more people from lower backgrounds got succeeded coz of their will power to fulfill their dreams and to show the society of their existence present. so i can say one thing for u is fixing an aim is difficult task ,it depends on your essentials ,desires and requirements in u r life...finally i want to say is live u r present life happily by fulfulling u r dreams coz future u cant predict how u r situations will be and for me my ultimate dream is to fulfill my parents hopes on me and fulfill my dreams also coz it makes me that happy dat i have done my job in this human life.....

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